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Conversations about real estate, reselling, financial independence, and the gloriously unpolished road between them.

1994 Plain Dealer archive photo of Tom, Katie, Mike, and David building a snowman

Where it all started · 1994

My first media appearance came with Katie and Mike.

Long before the rentals, the reselling, and The Frugal Gay, The Plain Dealer caught 12-year-old Tom building a snowman with his 6-year-old sister Katie, brother Mike, and their friend David Williams.

Not exactly Business Insider—but technically, it was the first press.

Featured speaking appearance

One Rental at a Time Celebration

Las Vegas · February 15–16, 2025

Tom joined the One Rental at a Time community as a speaker, sharing the real version of building wealth: buying rentals, growing a portfolio, leaving a W-2 at 39, and using reselling income to create more options.

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The house made television

The Katie Lee became a filming location.

The home was used to film scenes for People Magazine Investigates: Surviving a Serial Killer—“Surviving the Cook Brothers,” Season 1, Episode 6. The episode aired June 9, 2024 and is available on Max.

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On screen: The Katie Lee, Toledo’s Old West End.

Quoted in TIME

Barista FIRE—and building freedom before traditional retirement.

TIME’s NextAdvisor included Tom in its explanation of Barista FIRE: leaving the conventional full-time track while keeping flexible income and building life around what matters.

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The archive

More places Tom showed up.

Press2023

What Is Barista FIRE?

TIME / NextAdvisor

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Press2022

Real Estate Side Hustle Helped Him Retire Early

The U.S. Sun

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Press2022

Advice for a Homebuyer Who Waived Inspection and Bought a Lemon

Slate

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Press2024

10 Best LGBTQ-Friendly Finance Bloggers

CardRates.com

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Press2022

Advice for a First-Time Homebuyer When a Sale Falls Through

Slate

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Podcast2023

$1,000,000 March Madness Real Estate Challenge

Stacking Deeds

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Podcast2023

Using Side Hustles to Fund Real Estate and Build Wealth

The Motley Fool / All Star Money

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Press2023

LGBTQ Money Blogs to Follow

Debt Free Guys

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Press2023

Best Personal Finance Blogs

Think Save Retire

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Podcast2022

Retired at 39 From a Movie Theater

The FI Show

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Interview2023

Meet Tom Brickman, AKA The Frugal Gay

Resilient REI

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Podcast2022

Tom Brickman on Real Estate and Financial Independence

Adulting Is Easy

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Podcast2022

The Road to Wealth

Road to Wealth Podcast

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Video2022

The Frugal Gay Interview

House of AC

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Video2022

Building Wealth the Frugal Way

The Wealthy Life Podcast

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Podcast2022

The Frugal Gay

40 Plus Gay Men — Gay Talk

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Press2023

Refurbishing Buy-to-Let Property

The Independent Landlord

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Interview2022

Real Estate: How I Made My Fortune

MyWealthMoney

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Podcast2024

Movie Theater Manager to Millionaire

The Capitalizing Your Life Podcast

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Press2024

How The Frugal Gay Saves Money With 10 Simple Hacks

Dallas Voice

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Podcast2023

From Buying a Crack House on eBay to Turning Our Real Estate Journey Around

Price of Avocado Toast — Episode 148

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Podcast2023

Side Hustle Success: Financial Freedom From Lipstick and Bras

Money Talks News

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Podcast2023

Working for Yourself and Owning Your Time

I Should Have Learned This Sooner

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Podcast2023

FIRE by Real Estate: Advice for Future Real Estate Investors

Don’t Retire… Graduate!

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Podcast2023

3 Easy Steps to Start Real Estate Investing

Queer Money — Episode 382

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Podcast2023

Creative Financing for New Investors

Real Estate Maximalist — Episode 97

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Podcast2023

The Frugal Real Estate Investor

Money You Should Ask

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Press2023

The Frugal Gay Cultivated Financial Freedom for Himself—and Can Help Others Do the Same

Dallas Voice

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Podcast2022

Turning eBay Profits Into Cash-Flowing Rentals

BiggerPockets Money — Episode 291

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Podcast2022

How to Achieve FIRE With Real Estate

Yo Quiero Dinero — Episode 139

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Podcast2022

How to Make Money Flipping Products

Queer Money — Episode 303

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Podcast2022

World Premiere Podcast With The Frugal Gay

Real Estate Podcast Show

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